{"id":1117,"date":"2016-12-09T06:50:33","date_gmt":"2016-12-09T11:50:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1117"},"modified":"2016-12-10T01:44:41","modified_gmt":"2016-12-10T06:44:41","slug":"week-117-four-weeks-to-happyness-send-happy-mail-with-renee-eisman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1117","title":{"rendered":"Week #117 &#8211; Four Weeks to Happyness: Send Happy Mail! (with Renee Eisman)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1127\" style=\"width: 201px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1127\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-1127 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b-191x300.jpg?resize=191%2C300\" width=\"191\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b.jpg?resize=191%2C300&amp;ssl=1 191w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b.jpg?resize=651%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 651w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b.jpg?resize=624%2C981&amp;ssl=1 624w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Happy-Mail-b.jpg?w=750&amp;ssl=1 750w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 191px) 100vw, 191px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1127\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hand-made card donated to BSTFS (used with permission)<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Week #117 &#8211; Four Weeks to Happyness: Send Happy Mail! (with Renee Eisman)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Greetings Happyness Tribe &#8212; and\u00a0Happy\u00a0Friday!<\/p>\n<p><strong>We are counting down our <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1060\">Ten Weeks to Happyness<\/a> &#8212; and nothing makes ME happier than to spot <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=709\">Happyness in Action<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This week, I&#8217;m pleased to shine that spotlight on Hopatcong native, Renee Eisman &#8212; who is the Mail Program Manager for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Nursinghomesmiles\/\">Bring Smiles to Forgotten Seniors<\/a>. \u00a0&#8220;Bring Smiles&#8221; is a non-profit in Odessa, Florida that\u00a0works with schools and organizations to decorate cards for seniors that are in nursing homes, assisted living facilities, and homebound.<\/p>\n<p>Their motto is &#8220;One card, one smile at a time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d seen\u00a0Renee&#8217;s Facebook posts with photos of all the mail she sends\u00a0&#8212; but a recent post caught my eye. \u00a0It was an email and photo from an 81-year-old man in East Brunswick, NJ &#8212; writing to thank HER for the cards! \u00a0He wrote:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As you know, I am 81-years-old and don&#8217;t have much to look forward to\u00a0until these letters started to come in. \u00a0Who are these people that would send a card to someone they don&#8217;t know? Just to cheer them up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, Renee is one of those people!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I contacted her to learn more about the program, how she got involved, and &#8212; most important &#8212; how she went from sending zero to 150\/200 cards PER MONTH in less than a year!<\/p>\n<p><strong>150\/200 cards PER MONTH! \u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">That&#8217;s a lot of smiles!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Renee&#8217;s story began about two years ago &#8212; when she first moved to Florida. \u00a0&#8220;I fell and hit my head two months after relocating.&#8221; \u00a0Renee\u00a0suffered a subdural hematoma (bleeding of the brain). \u00a0Surgery and recovery followed. \u00a0&#8220;I never really had the chance to look for work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>So Renee started mailing cards and letters to friends and family &#8212; to pass the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always sent a lot of mail to friends and family when I moved to Florida.&#8221; \u00a0And as things go\u00a0&#8212; once you start doing something, you start seeing it in other places. \u00a0She saw individual Facebook posts from friends, acquaintances, and other programs requesting cards for seniors, shut-ins, and children with special needs. \u00a0So she added them to her list!<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;I enjoyed writing and decorating cards&#8230;I call it my arts and craft time.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And then, in the spring of this year,\u00a0&#8220;I saw a post in my newsfeed from the local TV station in Florida about (Bring Smiles) and ways to help. \u00a0I immediately put a package together to send to them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Renee started donating supplies (cards\u00a0and stickers) to Bring Smiles for a few months &#8212; and after a while, started chatting with the program&#8217;s founder Ron Tyson (a former Jefferson, NJ local). \u00a0&#8220;I was hoping to go visit nursing homes with them but the timing never seemed to work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Renee continued to donate cards and supplies to the program though &#8212; all while\u00a0continuing to grow\u00a0her own private mailing list. \u00a0And then, in June &#8212; Ron decided to begin a home mailing program. \u00a0And\u00a0Renee immediately volunteered to be in charge.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Since then, Renee has worked up to sending 150\/200 cards per month!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was used to working 40-50 hours a week. \u00a0It&#8217;s good for my mental health to keep busy and have a purpose.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bring Smiles operates 100% on donations for all expenses and supplies&#8230;and happily, one of Renee&#8217;s biggest challenges is keeping her supplies organized! \u00a0&#8220;It&#8217;s a lot to take out all the cards, stickers, stampers, postage, etc.&#8221; \u00a0But it&#8217;s worth it.<\/p>\n<p>And the joy just doesn&#8217;t come from SENDING cards. \u00a0&#8220;The surprises\u00a0have been receiving cards in return from a few people I send to.&#8221; \u00a0Of course, there are those moments when cards are returned, or she finds out through posts that one of the seniors &#8212; or children &#8212; have passed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;I know that I&#8217;m sending a smile and making the difference in someone&#8217;s day&#8230;that&#8217;s what keeps me going.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, Renee\u00a0would like to start a branch of the program in New Jersey &#8212; including local home deliveries and visits. \u00a0In the meantime, she&#8217;s going to keep sending cards. \u00a0To date, Bring Smiles has sent or delivered over 6,000 cards &#8212; and received over 10,000 &#8220;Likes&#8221; on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>What about you Happyness Tribe? \u00a0Care to send a little &#8220;Happy Mail&#8221; this week?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your Happyness Challenge for the week ahead: SEND HAPPY MAIL! \u00a0<\/strong>Visit &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Nursinghomesmiles\/?hc_ref=SEARCH\">Bring Smiles<\/a>&#8221; or one of the other organizations below to find out how you can send &#8220;Happy Mail&#8221; to seniors, shut-ins, or children in need. \u00a0Better yet,\u00a0Renee challenges everyone this week to send even one card to someone who needs a smile, even it it&#8217;s someone you personally know. \u00a0&#8220;Sending just one card, one time, and making one person smile is a great feeling.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Renee says, &#8220;Happyness to me is contentment with my life and feeling good about the things I do and the choices I make. \u00a0I enjoy making others smile.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Spread Happyness &#8212; SEND HAPPY MAIL! \u00a0(And check out the links below for more info on Renee&#8217;s favorite organizations or to sign up for notifications.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Nursinghomesmiles\/?hc_ref=SEARCH\">Bring Smiles to Forgotten Seniors<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/From-the-Heart-599391670189054\/?fref=ts\">From the Heart<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Comfort-and-Joy-903123753094061\/\">Comfort and Joy<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/SunshineSnailMail\/\">Sunshine Snail Mail<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(And if you or someone you know is hosting their own local charity event or fundraiser that Spreads Happyness directly to those who need it &#8212; please let me know! \u00a0I&#8217;d love to feature them on the blog!)<\/p>\n<p><em>12\/9\/16\u00a0by Grace Church<br \/>\n<\/em><em>\u00a9 Grace Church<br \/>\ngrace@spreadhappyness.com<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(PS: Special thanks to Renee Eisman\u00a0for taking the time to share the details of her story with me this week! \u00a0To learn more about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Nursinghomesmiles\/?hc_ref=SEARCH\">Bring Smiles to Forgotten Seniors<\/a>, visit them on Facebook at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Nursinghomesmiles\/?hc_ref=SEARCH\">www.facebook.com\/nursinghomesmiles<\/a>) &#8212; or contact Renee directly at bringsmiles@outlook.com.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Week #117 &#8211; Four Weeks to Happyness: Send Happy Mail! (with Renee Eisman) Greetings Happyness Tribe &#8212; and\u00a0Happy\u00a0Friday! We are counting down our Ten Weeks to Happyness &#8212; and nothing makes ME happier than to spot Happyness in Action! This week, I&#8217;m pleased to shine that spotlight on Hopatcong native, Renee Eisman &#8212; who is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1117"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1130,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1117\/revisions\/1130"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}