{"id":1577,"date":"2018-01-19T03:50:40","date_gmt":"2018-01-19T08:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1577"},"modified":"2018-01-18T19:08:00","modified_gmt":"2018-01-19T00:08:00","slug":"week-175-spread-happyness-send-mail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1577","title":{"rendered":"Week #175 &#8211; Spread Happyness: SEND MAIL!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1585\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1585\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1585\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?resize=624%2C468&amp;ssl=1 624w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?w=1250&amp;ssl=1 1250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/IMG_9065.jpg?w=1875&amp;ssl=1 1875w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1585\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Send Mail!&#8221; (photo credit: Grace Church)<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Week #175 &#8211; Spread Happyness: SEND MAIL!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Greetings Happyness Tribe!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve spent a good part of last year trying to declutter &#8212; and you know what I&#8217;ve found?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Notecards. \u00a0Lots of notecards.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve always wanted to be that person who sends timely birthday cards, thank you notes, and letters of encouragement. \u00a0I just never get around to it&#8230;never have a stamp&#8230;the right pen&#8230;never know which card would be the best card to send&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know which card is the best card? \u00a0The one that&#8217;s on your desk right now!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It reminded me of a post I wrote back in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=1052\">October 2016<\/a>. \u00a0I had a half-dozen notes I wanted to send. \u00a0One was to someone in late-stage cancer.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what? \u00a0It&#8217;s still sitting on my desk. \u00a0Unfortunately, she is gone.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>This week, I want to propose (once again) something that I have been very bad at &#8212; but have resolved to do better this year:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Send mail!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I know, I know&#8230;there are SO MANY faster\u00a0ways to connect with someone. \u00a0And forget about phone calls and emails&#8230;that is so 90&#8217;s! \u00a0Now we can text, chat, message, comment, reply, tweet, or post!<\/p>\n<p><strong>And that&#8217;s only if you still want to use words!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otherwise you can like, love, gram, snap, pin, or simply emoji your feelings to someone! \u00a0You don&#8217;t even need the alphabet anymore!<\/p>\n<p>But there is nothing, NOTHING, like walking to the mailbox, opening it, and expecting the usual pile of bills and circulars&#8230;only to find\u00a0a brightly colored envelope with your name in someone else&#8217;s familiar handwriting!<\/p>\n<p><strong>It means: someone <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">really<\/span> thought of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He or she spent time formulating a thought, writing something down, looking up your address, finding a stamp, and dropping that envelope in the mail to reach you at an undetermined date &#8212; when they won&#8217;t have the satisfaction of an immediate response or emotional feedback.<\/p>\n<p>It is a precious, sneaky, fun surprise. \u00a0And like I said, I&#8217;ve been really bad at it! \u00a0So&#8230;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><strong>Your Happyness Challenge for the Week Ahead: SEND\u00a0MAIL! \u00a0<\/strong>Chances are your holiday card list is still within easy reach. \u00a0Grab it now and update it with important birthdates\/anniversaries\/events\/etc. &#8212; and if you&#8217;re a nerd like me and have yours in a spreadsheet, just add a birthdate column and sort by date! \u00a0The six to eight weeks after the holidays are a blue-sy and isolated time for a lot of people. \u00a0Spread Happyness &#8212; <span class=\"Apple-style-span\">send a smile to someone&#8217;s mailbox today!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">Who do you owe a note or card to? \u00a0Don&#8217;t tell me&#8230;tell them! \u00a0\ud83d\ude09<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Spread Happyness &#8212; SEND MAIL! \u00a0And share your thoughts in the comments (but only AFTER you put a stamp on it)!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><em>1\/19\/18 by Grace Church<br \/>\n<\/em><em>\u00a9 Grace Church<br \/>\ngrace@spreadhappyness.com<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Week #175 &#8211; Spread Happyness: SEND MAIL! Greetings Happyness Tribe! I&#8217;ve spent a good part of last year trying to declutter &#8212; and you know what I&#8217;ve found? Notecards. \u00a0Lots of notecards. I&#8217;ve always wanted to be that person who sends timely birthday cards, thank you notes, and letters of encouragement. \u00a0I just never get [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1577"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1586,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1577\/revisions\/1586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1577"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1577"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1577"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}