{"id":184,"date":"2014-12-05T06:50:46","date_gmt":"2014-12-05T11:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=184"},"modified":"2014-12-23T13:18:27","modified_gmt":"2014-12-23T18:18:27","slug":"week-12-there-is-no-i-in-thoughtful-either-aka-14-ways-to-spread-happyness-this-holiday-season","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=184","title":{"rendered":"Week #12 &#8211; There is no (i) in &#8220;Thoughtful&#8221; either!  (aka 14 Ways to Spread Happyness this Holiday Season)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_199\" style=\"width: 250px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Photo3.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-199\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-199\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/Photo3.jpg?resize=240%2C283\" alt=\"#50 (Photo credit: Grace Church)\" width=\"240\" height=\"283\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-199\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">#50 (Photo credit: Grace Church)<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">(Editor\u2019s note: Thanks to all who\u2019ve generously responded with donations or pledges for the 50 for #50 virtual toy drive! \u00a0We have 8 individuals confirmed so far, with a total of at least 15 gifts given in Rob\u2019s honor to-date, and there are at least a dozen more promised. \u00a0Check the footer of this page for an up-to-date list of toys and locations\u00a0&#8212; and if you&#8217;d like to join the tribe, just\u00a0let us know what you donated and where\u2026and maybe even post a photo! \u00a0I\u2019ll update the total each week, with a grand total at the end of the month. \u00a0THANK YOU\u00a0TEAM HAPPYNESS!!!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Week #12 &#8211; There is no (i) in &#8220;Thoughtful&#8221; either! \u00a0(aka 14 Ways to Spread Happyness this Holiday Season!)<\/p>\n<p>In the lower right hand corner of the word board, there is an anonymous note: &#8220;Thoughtful and Warm.&#8221; \u00a0The word &#8220;thoughtful&#8221; jumped out at me. \u00a0What does it mean to be thoughtful &#8212; and how is that a recipe for happiness?<\/p>\n<p>Last week I wrote that it take (U) to be &#8220;Generous&#8221;. \u00a0Well&#8230;it takes (U) to be &#8220;Thoughtful&#8221; too. \u00a0In fact, it takes TWO of (U)! \u00a0Because the only way to be thought-ful &#8212; is to be full-of-thought for someone else!<\/p>\n<p>But let&#8217;s face it &#8212; the holidays can be a\u00a0hurried and\u00a0stressful time of year, with little time to think at all! \u00a0Forced togetherness, unmet expectations, year-end work demands, more commitments to others, less time for ourselves, not to mention sadness related to those who are missing from our celebrations. \u00a0And now I&#8217;m asking you to think of others!<\/p>\n<p>But perhaps now &#8212; when we feel we can least afford it &#8212; is the PERFECT time to stop and think about\u00a0what it means to be &#8220;thoughtful&#8221;! \u00a0I found 14 synonyms that shed some light &#8212; and they may be things you are doing already! \u00a0Above all&#8230;the one common denominator in all these things is that there is someone else involved. \u00a0Thoughtfulness indeed takes TWO of (U)!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Astute &#8211; smart, quick, perceptive<\/li>\n<li>Attentive &#8211; giving attention; observant<\/li>\n<li>Careful &#8211; cautious, exact, thorough<\/li>\n<li>Considerate &#8211; awareness or regard for another&#8217;s feelings<\/li>\n<li>Courteous &#8211; mannerly, polite<\/li>\n<li>Deliberate &#8211; carefully considered, intentional<\/li>\n<li>Discreet &#8211; judicious; prudent<\/li>\n<li>Friendly &#8211; showing personal affection or regard<\/li>\n<li>Gracious &#8211; kind, benevolent, courteous<\/li>\n<li>Helpful &#8211; giving aid or assistance; of service<\/li>\n<li>Polite &#8211; well mannered<\/li>\n<li>Prudent &#8211; wise or judicious<\/li>\n<li>Tactful &#8211; appropriate, tasteful<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Your assignment for this weekend: Did Rob touch your life in one of the 14 ways listed above &#8212; or is one of these a particular gift all your own? \u00a0If so, pay it forward this weekend to someone else who needs it (or maybe even to yourself&#8230;sometimes the wisest counsel comes from within!). \u00a0Otherwise &#8212; pick the one word that jumps out at you the most. \u00a0Make that your mission for the week ahead. \u00a0Try it on for size. \u00a0See if it improves your relationships or lightens your burdens &#8212; but above all, see if it SPREADS HAPPYNESS to those around (including you, too)!<\/p>\n<p>Will you make time to be THOUGHTFUL about THOUGHTFULNESS this weekend?!<\/p>\n<p>Spread Happyness &#8212; and share your thoughts in the comments!<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><em>12\/5\/14 by Grace Church<br \/>\n<\/em><em>\u00a9 Grace Church<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">UPDATE 12\/5\/14:\u00a0Saturday&#8217;s Monster Truck Rides for Toys event has been canceled due to weather &#8212; and Sunday&#8217;s event has been moved to Hackettstown! \u00a0Amy Wood-Oblen (classmate of Rob&#8217;s) is holding a Monster Truck Rides for Toys event to benefit local families on Sunday, December 7th &#8212; now\u00a0at Highview Farms &#8212; 416 Sand Shore Road on the border of Hackettstown\/Budd Lake next to Sand Shore School. \u00a0Free monster truck rides to anyone who donates an unwrapped new toy at these events! \u00a0Check Amy Wood-Oblen&#8217;s FB page for details!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>AS OF\u00a012\/23\/14:<br \/>\n1. Thomas the Tank Activity Toy was donated at Dollar General in Netcong, NJ.<br \/>\n2. Two Lego sets and a Lincoln Log set were donated at Toys for Tots in Stockholm, NJ.<br \/>\n3. Two Operation Christmas Child boxes, Baby Chicks, a Bible, and money to fund Thanksgiving baskets were donated at various locations near Succasunna, NJ.<br \/>\n4. Two Hallmark Jingle Bell Stuffed Animals will be donated in Flanders, NJ.<br \/>\n5. CLUE game will be donated in Flanders, NJ.<br \/>\n6. Hot Wheels Assortment was donated near Stanhope, NJ.<br \/>\n7. Donation made to EFA (Endometriosis Foundation of America) in Robert&#8217;s memory.<br \/>\n8.\u00a0<span class=\"Apple-style-span\">Barbie VW beetle donated to Community Hope&#8217;s SSVF Program (supportive services for veteran families)<br \/>\n9. A baby doll with a pacifier and crib, a doc mc stuffin gift pack, and home made loom bracelets were donated to the Hackettstown Police Department in Hackettstown, NJ.<br \/>\n10.\u00a02 stuffed horses, a\u00a0<span class=\"misspelled\">Crayola<\/span>\u00a0creation set and a remote control car were donated to Toys for Tots in Parsippany, NJ.<br \/>\n11. Four wigs (along with bandanas) were donated to Carol G. Simon Cancer Center\u00a0in Summit, NJ.<br \/>\n12.\u00a0Five gifts &#8212; Mega Blocks, a play xylophone, a Fisher Price Rock-a-Stack, a baby doll, and a plush puppy dog &#8212; were donated for a sweet little girl through Angel Tree in Tampa, FL.<br \/>\n13. A monetary donation was made to Toys for Tots near Flanders, NJ.<br \/>\n14. A\u00a0donation was made to Mylestone Horse Rescue in Rob&#8217;s name.<br \/>\n15.\u00a0<span data-reactid=\".ka.1:3:1:$comment390618124418653_398864440260688:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.0\"><span data-reactid=\".ka.1:3:1:$comment390618124418653_398864440260688:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.0.$end:0:$0:0\">Two very generous donations were made in Hopatcong, NJ: Gift #1 &#8212; 2 sweaters, 2 mulitmedia pads, a color wheel, and 126 mulitmedia art set. Gift #2 &#8212; tie dye kit, package of white tee shirts, cross stitch kit, crewel kit, soa<\/span><\/span><span data-reactid=\".ka.1:3:1:$comment390618124418653_398864440260688:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3\"><span data-reactid=\".ka.1:3:1:$comment390618124418653_398864440260688:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0\"><span data-reactid=\".ka.1:3:1:$comment390618124418653_398864440260688:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0\">p making kit, nail kit, 2 bottles of nail polish, nail treatment, nail oil, base coat and top coat, and lots of socks!<br \/>\n16. A donation was made in Rob&#8217;s memory to Memorial Sloan Kettering.<br \/>\n17. Donations were made at Toys for Tots and Bergen County animal shelter in New Jersey.<br \/>\n18. A donation was made in Rob&#8217;s name to Eleventh Hour Animal Rescue.<br \/>\n19.\u00a0A $50 donation was made in Rob&#8217;s name to United Methodist Global Aviation Ministry.<\/span><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Editor\u2019s note: Thanks to all who\u2019ve generously responded with donations or pledges for the 50 for #50 virtual toy drive! \u00a0We have 8 individuals confirmed so far, with a total of at least 15 gifts given in Rob\u2019s honor to-date, and there are at least a dozen more promised. \u00a0Check the footer of this page [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-184","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=184"}],"version-history":[{"count":28,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":266,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions\/266"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}