{"id":283,"date":"2015-01-02T06:50:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-02T11:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=283"},"modified":"2015-01-02T00:55:26","modified_gmt":"2015-01-02T05:55:26","slug":"week-16-can-you-say-i-love-my-life-one-surefire-way-to-make-sure-you-can-in-2015","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=283","title":{"rendered":"Week #16 &#8211; Can you say, \u201cI love my life!&#8221;  (One surefire way to make sure you can in 2015!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_285\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/119_1429.jpeg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-285\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-285\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/119_1429-300x225.jpeg?resize=300%2C225\" alt=\"Loving Life!  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(Photo credit: Grace Church)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Week #16 &#8211;\u00a0<span class=\"Apple-style-span\">Can you say \u201cI love my life!\u201d \u00a0(One surefire way to make sure you can in 2015!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Many of us have been looking back over the past year, reflecting on all the changes, the highs, the lows, what happened, what went wrong, and how we can fix it in 2015.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s hard to love your life when it&#8217;s so easy to look back and come up with all the bad things that happened. \u00a0Hell &#8212; while reviewing my own year I forgot about starting this website and blogging for the first time (something I&#8217;ve been wanting to do for years!). \u00a0Those two wins got eclipsed\u00a0(momentarily) by one very significant loss. \u00a0Afterall, it&#8217;s easy to get stuck on the\u00a0losses&#8230;but we have to balance them with what we&#8217;ve gained. \u00a0We have to, as our friend Rob Nicholson said in a recent Facebook post, &#8220;keep moving forward and celebrate and revel in what we have!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So I want to do something different. \u00a0I want to look ahead&#8230;WAY ahead. \u00a0To December 31st of THIS year. \u00a0It&#8217;s only 365 days away. \u00a0Oops&#8230;364 now! \u00a0What will it take to say on that day, &#8220;I love my life?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I know one thing for sure&#8230;it will take\u00a0REMINDERS!<\/p>\n<p>Your assignment this week: Don&#8217;t count on yourself to remember everything about the year come December 31st. \u00a0Make a plan to curate the wins just as much as the losses. \u00a0Come up with a system for recording your achievements, successes, highlights, and otherwise happy times THROUGHOUT\u00a0the year\u00a0ahead! \u00a0The most obvious way is to keep a dated list &#8212; in a journal, on your computer, via email, or on your phone &#8212; where you take time each day to review your activities and take note of anything special or significant. \u00a0I keep a running list by date and habitually recount the day&#8217;s activities. \u00a0To be honest, most days it&#8217;s pretty mundane &#8212; but the habit assures that when something notable happens I&#8217;m going to capture and remember it. \u00a0Recently though, I&#8217;ve seen and heard about some other very creative ideas:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I&#8217;ve seen a Gratitude Tree &#8212; write what you&#8217;re grateful for on little shapes and fill an inside tree or wall mural up throughout the year (works in classrooms, too!).<\/li>\n<li>I heard of photo-journaling &#8212; use cell-phone photos in a specific file or on Instagram to keep track of accomplishments.<\/li>\n<li>But my favorite has been the Joy Jar or Happiness Jar! \u00a0The idea is simple: you start on January 1st (okay, 2nd) with an empty jar in a prominent location in your home &#8212; and you start dropping notes in it throughout the year about things that went well, things that make you happy, things you&#8217;re grateful for, achieved, or accomplished. \u00a0At the end of the year you have a personal collection of happy memories to review &#8212; or immediate access throughout the year when you need a lift to face a challenge! \u00a0One woman even collaged them on a monthly basis as a type of word-cloud to record as a journal.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The possibilities are endless &#8212; but the idea is the same: make it a point to collect the good stuff! \u00a0Because we need more of that. \u00a0More focus on the wins. \u00a0More focus on what&#8217;s right. \u00a0More focus on loving our lives &#8212; so that we can live our lives more fully.<\/p>\n<p>I want us to say, &#8220;I love my life!&#8221; in 2015. \u00a0I want to yell\u00a0it together &#8212; from wherever we are &#8212; at midnight next New Year&#8217;s Eve! \u00a0And I want a plan in place to do it! \u00a0Who&#8217;s with me?!<\/p>\n<p>Spread Happyness &#8212; share your ideas, thoughts, or suggestions for tracking your accomplishments &#8212; or pledge to yell &#8220;I love my life!&#8221; in the comments!<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><em>1\/2\/15 by Grace Church<br \/>\n<\/em><em>\u00a9 Grace Church<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Week #16 &#8211;\u00a0Can you say \u201cI love my life!\u201d \u00a0(One surefire way to make sure you can in 2015!) 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