{"id":57,"date":"2014-10-03T06:50:48","date_gmt":"2014-10-03T10:50:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=57"},"modified":"2014-10-03T16:34:45","modified_gmt":"2014-10-03T20:34:45","slug":"week-3-shakers-aka-nicknames-and-other-ways-to-win-friends-and-influence-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=57","title":{"rendered":"Week #3 &#8211; &#8220;Shakers!&#8221; (aka Nicknames&#8230;and other ways to win friends and influence people)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div id=\"attachment_60\" style=\"width: 194px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/Inside-Joke-e1412306881205.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-60\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-60\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/Inside-Joke-e1412306881205.jpg?resize=184%2C200\" alt=\"(Photo credit: Grace Church)\" width=\"184\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-60\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Photo credit: Grace Church)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Week #3 &#8211; &#8220;Shakers!&#8221; (aka Nicknames&#8230;and other ways to win friends and influence people)<\/p>\n<p>In the book\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">How to Win Friends and Influence People<\/span>, Dale Carnegie wrote: &#8220;a person&#8217;s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sorry, Dale&#8230;I disagree. \u00a0A nickname is even sweeter!<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">Rob &#8212; also known as Baab, Babadino, Rob-a-dob, Rhubarb, Runt, Mayor, Gov\u2019, or Platypus &#8212; rarely called anyone by their proper name. \u00a0This has been alluded to already in the comments both on the website and Facebook &#8212; and is one of the things seared into people\u2019s memories of\u00a0him. \u00a0From grade school through adulthood &#8212; Rob would often use nicknames, nut just as a sign of affection, but as a secret nod acknowledging an entire memory or experience just the two of you shared. \u00a0Mine was a long drawn-out \u201cYeesssssss, Graaaaaaaace.\u201d \u00a0His signal to me that I was brooding far too much about something unimportant and missing the fun of the moment right in front of me. \u00a0How right he so often was! \u00a0What about you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Your assignment for this weekend: sweeten things up by playing the\u00a0nickname-game! \u00a0You can say the first things that come to your mind (goodness knows Rob would!) &#8212; or, if you need a little help, try adding a \u201c-ster\u201d or \u201c-dino\u201d or \u201c-dob\u201d or \u201c-toozie\u201d to everyone\u2019s name. \u00a0Come on folks, for the love of happiness, are you willing to try this?!<\/p>\n<p>What do you think of nicknames? \u00a0Spread the happiness&#8230;and tell us in the comments!<\/p>\n<p><em>10\/3\/14 by Grace Church<br \/>\n<\/em><em>\u00a9 Grace Church<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Week #3 &#8211; &#8220;Shakers!&#8221; (aka Nicknames&#8230;and other ways to win friends and influence people) In the book\u00a0How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie wrote: &#8220;a person&#8217;s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.&#8221; Sorry, Dale&#8230;I disagree. \u00a0A nickname is even sweeter! 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