{"id":851,"date":"2016-03-04T06:50:13","date_gmt":"2016-03-04T11:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=851"},"modified":"2016-03-03T23:09:46","modified_gmt":"2016-03-04T04:09:46","slug":"week-77-one-year-six-months-ride-the-wave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.spreadhappyness.com\/?p=851","title":{"rendered":"Week #77 – One year, six months: “Ride the wave!”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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“Ride the Wave” (photo credit: Grace Church)<\/p><\/div>\n

Week #77 – One year, six months: “Ride the wave!”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tomorrow, March 5th, will be the one-year and six-month anniversary of Rob’s passing. \u00a0I’m still learning a lot about grief…and yes, I’m finding it still comes in waves.<\/p>\n

A dear friend had to remind me of my own advice this week. \u00a0When faced with a big decision, she reminded me\u00a0to “Ride the wave.” \u00a0And so, I repeat this post from Week #25<\/a> — because I needed to hear it again, so maybe someone else does too!<\/p>\n

“Ride the wave” became a sort of mantra during Rob’s funeral.<\/strong> \u00a0I had written it on the back of his car in window chalk…because it was the last thing I said to him. \u00a0He was fighting so hard. \u00a0And having no words, no answers, no nothing for this perfectly healthy and beautiful young man with everything\u00a0to live for…the only thing that came to mind was a surfing analogy.<\/p>\n

But the words are not mine. \u00a0They are wise words that came to us\u00a0from an experienced screenwriter friend as we were riding the rapidly changing highs and lows of our first script going out to market. \u00a0Our friend is a surfer too, and it was a language we immediately understood: you can’t control the outcome, just the effort. \u00a0Skills, preparation, determination, focus…those were all\u00a0on us. \u00a0After that, just “ride the wave” the furthest and best you can.<\/span><\/p>\n

It became a mantra for us when facing difficulties or challenges: “just ride the wave.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Surfing was a language that Rob understood, too\u00a0— and it\u00a0can teach you a lot about life. \u00a0You don’t just run out and jump in hoping for the best. \u00a0There’s a lot to learn before you get that first ride — and there’s a lot more practice after that in order to do it even moderately well. \u00a0Like most things Rob picked up, he took to it almost immediately — and enjoyed it immensely. \u00a0And his happiness became our happiness, too! \u00a0(You can ride waves of happiness, too!)<\/p>\n

Are you — or someone you know — facing a wave right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your Happyness Challenge for the Week Ahead:<\/strong>\u00a0Like the waves of the ocean, we can’t always control the conditions in our lives. \u00a0You can try to go over them, under them, around them…or get knocked down by them. \u00a0Or you can RIDE THE WAVE. \u00a0With a little practice and preparation…you can\u00a0be ready to paddle in when the wave comes to you. \u00a0Perfect conditions or not…we can only control our responses. \u00a0The enjoyment and fulfillment is in the ride itself! \u00a0(And it’s helpful to remember that\u00a0wipe-outs are legendary, too!)<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever you’re facing…you’ve got this! \u00a0Paddle in, pop up, and ride that wave! \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Spread Happyness — share your thoughts in the comments. \u00a0And RIDE THE WAVE!!!<\/p>\n

3\/4\/16 by Grace Church
\n<\/em>\u00a9 Grace Church
\ngrace@spreadhappyness.com<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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